Create Lifelong Connections: Tips for Homestay Abroad!!

     This week, students in HSSA program in Madrid were introduced to their host families, which play crucial roles in introducing culture and customs for life in Madrid.

​     Such a vibrant city like Madrid may seem to have plenty of art and music that provides insight to the city's atmosphere, however the roles host families play cultivate an even deeper sense of understanding. Proir to the trip, I was worried about my ability to communicate with my host family, whether they would accept me or find my preferences difficult, and overall, about my ability to connect. However, having met my family, lived in my homestay and talked to others, I have began to understand that the homestay is actually among the most special aspects of the program, so I am giving some tips below :)))

     1. Ask Questions!!! 

     On the second night in my homestay, I found that asking questions, even if they seem silly, can be meaningful, and also a beneficial way to introduce new vocabulary. For example, I asked about my host sister's "abuelos" (grandparents) and was incredibly impressed to learn that her grandfather was "un torero" or bull fighter. Earlier in the day, I visited La Plaza de Toros, so when I learned this about my host sister, I was able to ask more questions and continue an incredibly interesting conversation that lasted until late in the night. 

La Plaza de Los Toros- where I learned about las corridas de toros (the bull fights) that I discussed with my homestay family during sobremesa

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      2. Learn what they enjoy!

     The first day I was introduced to my host family, we talked about the most popular places in the city. After talking to our host family, we learned that we have many similar hobbies including music, art, and athletics. After finding these common interests, we took a beautiful stroll in El Parque Retiro, and our hosts showed us beautiful aspects of the park during a walk that we both enjoyed. When we returned to the apartment, we switched off playing our favorite songs aloud, and were able to learn about eachother, which helps create a stronger bond between the student and their host family. Additionally, we both enjoy taking photos, so exchanging photos was a meaningful way to see aspects of the others' lives. 

El Parque Retiro- where I walked around with my host family

     3. Don't be afraid to make mistakes!!

     It is so true that the only way to learn the language is to practice it. Every host family knows that students in CIEE are learning, and I have found that making mistakes actually helps cultivate a greater sense of trust and friendship with my host family. I frequently ask "Que significa ....." or "Como que dice..." and my host family is always ready with a response, and often with stories if we are lucky!! This aspect of the homestay has been one of my favorite parts of the program.  Additionally, it's important to remember that host families are native to the language, and are often able to understand ideas, even if the grammar is incorrect. It is more important to try to speak ideas than to wait in silence trying to remember grammar, so just try your best!!

My host family's dog- my host family has the most adorable dog as well!! 

     There are many ways to connect with host families, and this connection is not something to fear, but something to look forward to and appriciate.